You can’t live for God until you learn how to live because of God. You can’t make good choices for God until you’ve read the Gospel that says the choices you make DON’T make you who you are. What Christ has done for you makes you who you are. Yes, there are consequences to our choices, the choices we make have ramifications about where we end up, but here’s the Gospel: Where we end up, is not who we are. Who we are isn’t what we do, who we are is what has been done for us.